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Sexy eyebrows! ❤

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Say Keven try “It’s Probably Me” by sting featuring Eric Clapton. There’s a certain version of the song. It’s better than this one. IMHO. Hope u r doing well.

You got beautiful eyes.

That guy was definitely insane to walk away from a guy like you!!!!!

should be called absgrindr….lawl

I’ve never used any apps at all. Never met anyone off the internet or through an app. Just not my style.

I reckon you look more masc in the photo than real life and that's probably why its popular.

If you put a genuine smile it has even more impact or if you laugh as opposed to a forced smile just for the picture. And for the headless torsos, to me they're headless people, I just skip them and if one of them talks to me without showing me a face within 5 minutes, they get blocked. 🙂 I rarely use that app, people treat you like a piece of meat, it's not what it used to be, you used to be acutually able to find dates and BFs on it, not really anymore, it's became harder and harder.

Beautiful eyes❤️

The smiley pic is something I’d be WAY more inclined to respond to

I dont really think it has to do anything with a smile being a special psychological trick. its just that you look good in that smiling picture. other people dont look that good smiling. but you do.

I'm so glad I was born ugly, listening to how you pretty people stress yourself out over the silliest things makes me glad that I can just be me.

I have never belonged there

Haha this was true and funny to listen too 😂

I have will not do it agian.

Yeah it's true as well in my experience. Generally I've found that by posting full figure face pics showing you in your best light publicly (with friends, doing stuff, in front of land marks or art pieces) it shows off something about your personality that thus draws a certain type of person. An example being you being into art, if you were to post pictures of yourself having fun at a favorite art gallery or in a art museum, you would in theory attract people who are also into artistic pursuits. With the kinda personality that enjoys it to go with. Pictures with a smile in general are better since it shows a degree of sincerity or authenticity... especially if it's natural. As you said torso pics or faceless profiles are usually for people looking for s_e_x. So not doing that, stating in your profile that your looking to seriously date vs searching for casual NSA, should weed out the vast of majority of s_e _x fiends out there. I don't think it be a good thing if everyone did it though. Especially if they weren't looking for anything long lasting and acted like a douche most of time on the apps anyway. It would lead to culture insincerity and falseness that to degree already exists... but would be much worse if everyone had friendly profile pics and acted anything but lol.

This happened to me years ago when I was about 24 and lived in San Diego, California. I went to this guys house after talking on a site called 'hot or not' in which people would rate your attractiveness from 1 to 10 on your profile, this was way before grindr. People rated me an 8.9 so I was on the cusp of being a '9'.... this guy specifically stated on his profile that he only hooked up with 9s or higher. I thought he was hot and lived near me, in that time I lived in Del Mar which is kind of far from the gay are in San Diego. So I went to his house and when he opened the door he immediately said "nah" and closed the door on my face. Then he opened it again and said "I dont know how people rate you even an 8, you're not even close to a 5". I felt terrible because I was so young. Yes the picture I took was with really good lighting but there were no filters back then or anything like that and I was pretty skinny so certain light can make you look more muscular so I looked a little more 'meaty' on the picture. I couldn't sleep the whole night feeling horrible about how I looked and deleted my profile there. This guy was in his 40s so I would expect him to be a little bit more empathetic with a younglin like I was at the time but he was harsh. I called one of my best friends and told her and she told me that he was crazy that I was handsome and this and that so I felt better. It helps to have support of friends when things like these happen.

Keven you have a GREAT smile !!

I had this guy come to my place, he didnt look like his picture but he was not bad looking and I was horny so I let him in then when we were about to kiss he started acting weird and said he didnt want to kiss because he was very sensitive about smells and said I smelled like alcohol. I was a bit hungover from a night of drinking so... then he got up and started getting dressed, I didn't know what to say it was awkward. He took forever getting dressed too so I got up from the bed and started getting dressed too and washing my hands to make up time I guess. Then he went downstairs and exited on his own. I then realized he took my phone and left his lol OMG I followed him half naked to his car and he thought I was chasing him around the parking lot so he tried to call the cops with my phone... then I told him he had my phone. UGH he then had to come back inside my place so I could give him his phone. Just awkward and weird and I bet you all my neighbors saw the entire show.

you have a BEAUTIFUL smile, that's why you are getting more messages. I would kill to have a smile like yours. Just seeing you smile on this video looks really good. We are very harsh on ourselves as gay guys. I have the same worries as you when I smile, I think my cheeks look huge and they do but hey! That's me so... whatver

Are you wearing mascara and/or eye liner?

Even if everyone was smiling, it'll come down to intentionality eventually imo Because i got drawn to my narc ex thru his smiling pics

cher has a good version of this.

Biden is not the lesssr of two evils. He's a good, humble, decent man whose accomplishments are greater than those of any president in my lifetime. He is the real deal. Yes he is getting feeble, but there's no question that he's the better human being and better president.

I'll post a smile pic & see what the response is

Plenty of choice, something for everyone, no need to panic or complain of being left without.

😀✨

I really do not have an opinion because I have not tried dating in years and I have not used dating sites in a long time. I personally do not like taking photos or looking at myself in pictures. It things are working for you and it is helping you , by all means go for it Keven. You have some great photos as well. They say a lot about you without saying anything.

Like the song says, you’re never fully dressed without a smile!😊

It helps when you are photogenic.

Getting tons of messages? what's that? As a visible minority (who's been complimented as handsome at times) I get mostly silence on Grindr.

I feel you. I really like how you brought it to a personal connection and a source of inspiration. If these guys can make it this far, I can certainly aim higher and achieve more than I have.

I show a smile in my Grindr profile. Dudes tend to be really surprised when I show up looking like my profile pic.

You’re giving suburban trophy wife energy. I wonder if you’re looking for some handsome guy earning in the mid six figures to date, renovate a house, start a family, and coach your theatre kids into stardom.

Keven you're a good looking quality guy. You dont need to be on Grindr. With your good looks, charm, and intellect, there's tons of great guys who actually would want to date you and sweep you off your feet. You're too good to be dealing with all the immaturity and nonsense on Grindr. I bet you if you just approached someone you're attracted to in person in any environment, he would give you the time of day. As your gay elder, I just wanted to share my opinion.

Showing my huge dong is what works best for me.

Hahaha....who needs Grindr??

Id be frightened, if everybody was smiling lol

I like the very sad melancholic look more, don't ask me why but that's just me.

I feel like being black on Grindr is a whole different experience. I’m not trying to play the victim or race card and I know this is a cliche topic but my smiling picture is currently doing terrible. I’m barely getting any messages at all and I thought it was a good photo😒guess it’s my own fault for thinking I had a chance to begin with. It must be nice looking like Keven and getting tons of messages. I can’t relate at all🤷🏿‍♀️I know I sound bitter but I just am at this point. I think you made this video just to flex

The lead singer, Hope Sandoval, went solo after Mazzy Star. “Fade into you” is Mazzy stars flagship song that went crossover mainstream. They are of the slo-core or freak-folk genre. Oh, and she hails from East Los Angeles.

One of my all time favorite songs by Sting.

Look at it this way: one of the candidates will promote and enhance democracy and one will destroy it. The tens of thousands of years of human history is distilled into one document and donald uses it to wipe his ass with. You may still be too young to realize what you have....make sure you aren't taken things for granted. You wouldn't exist in Russia rate now; you would be in prison. LBJ didn't run for a second term but he did inherited JFK's.

I prefer your wholesome pictures, leave the rest to mystery and intrigue. That's a more sexier approach in my opinion, in other words "Don't give out the ending, before the introduction."

I have resting serial killer bitch face on my Grindr app pictures and I love it 5:19

Sociopaths and psychos smile in their profiles too. By searching hook-up apps as a way to find dates you are dispensing with how we humans are really "coded". We are animals. Animals scent each other out before engaging. But the olfactory aspect is entirely dispensed with when one has relegated himself to sexual meat markets. (Nothing wrong with meat, but you said yourself you are looking for dates, not just a roll in the hay.) Thus IMHO you are on the wrong app and it will prove to largely be a waste of your time. One can also get signals and clues when meeting guys in person which you will react to either positively or negatively. Your gut instincts will alert you to red flags if you listen. Some might refer to this as "vibes", but the only vibe you are gonna get on hook-up apps is the carefully constructed one that men present in order to hook the next fish, so "vibes" are dispensed with as well. What hook-up app profiles are is people presenting their own idealized image of themselves, which may or may not prove accurate in reality. Be honest: how many times have you been shocked or appalled by a hook-up who seemed very attractive in his profile but was quite the opposite in person?

You look hotter with the smile

You have a great smile in that picture!